Do you know this creep? Those are about 6 year old photos of Ryan Fairley. This piece of shit has essentially been trying to destroy me for 9 years. I have no clue why he has so much hate for me. I'm trying to find anyone who knows him and can maybe shed some light on what's wrong with him. If he's not a sadistic sexual predator, it would have to mean he's seriously mentally ill. If you know him, or especially, if you've suffered from the twisted psychosexual games like he's been playing on me, please share your experience with me at admin@ryanfairley.org. If you know him and can't believe he could be like that, neither could I. It took me years to finally realize that Ryan Fairley isn't the wonderful, really sweet young man I thought he was. He's very deceptive and I'm pretty sure he's at least close to being a pathological liar. I know virtually nothing he ever said to me turned out to be the truth. Please, heed this as a warning if you're friends with him. All of his behaviour and the claims he's made have been nonsensical, inexplicable, and it's left me utterly baffled, which is the main source of the trauma he's inflicted on me. After leading us into an online relationship that was quite serious as far as I could tell, he revealed his true feeling which were nothing but hateful hostility and contempt. He led me on and constantly encouraged my feelings and then turned into a sadistic monster, using what he knew of my emotional problems, of my hyper-sensitivities and of what meant the most to me to inflict the most distress and trauma as he could, he was utterly callous and cruel and without even a hint of remorse or compassion. It still just dumbfounds me, it's all so unbelievable that he could really be that despicable and deplorable a human being, but that's what he truly is Sp please, anyone seeing this who knows anything at all about this reprehensible human being, could you do me and anyone else who might need to know a favor and tell me what you know? Below are some of the details, and a link to another page with tons more details. It's a really ugly story about a really ugly piece of shit who did really ugly things to me for no other reason than his own twisted pleasure. |
Ryan Fairley is a sadistic monster. Ryan Fairley is a sexual predator. Ryan Fairley is grossly dishonest and deceitful, he's likely a pathological liar. Ryan Fairley is heartless, thoughtless, uncaring, he could be a sociopath. Ryan Fairley, knowingly and intentionally treated me with callous cruelty, used his knowledge of my emotional and psychological problems to inflict a soul and ego shattering blow causing me extreme emotional distress with long term traumatic and debilitating consequences. There was no justification for this. Without a hint of remorse, he behaved with a horrible casual callousness, he simply didn't care what he was doing to me and said so. I think I know what this all was, and it's petty, it's quite depraved for utterly petty reasons. Consider Ryan telling me this: The thought of you seeing pictures of me nude, and watching those videos is incredibly erotic for me... Here's records of the immediate aftermath of entertaining the relevant thoughts, to aid this discussion : |
Ryan Fairley is a sadistic sexual predator, I should know, I'm a victim of his callous cruelties and the twisted games he plays. For years, I couldn't believe he could possibly be such a despicable human being, I thought he would realize the harm he caused me and would apologize and at least try to undo some of the damage he did. I was naive, foolishly so. After 6 1/2 years I'd waited long enough, too long, way too long. If he wasn't a sadistic monster, he would have long since tried to do right by me. I've now spent the last 2 years trying to get him to help me, or even just admit to what he did and accept some responsibility for the terrible consequences of the cruelties he inflicted on me. His response to my efforts to ask him for help, then beg him, then abjectly beg him was to slam the door in my face so he wouldn't hear me. Not once has he even acknowledged a single message I've sent. I have no way of knowing if he's seen, much less read, any of them. I was forced to keep trying on the chance he'd see one and somehow feel he had to respond, but no luck. In fact, without once telling me to stop, or telling me anything whatsofuckingever, Ryan is such a sniveling coward and pathetic weasel he went to the police, trying to play the victim FFS and filed a CRIMINAL harassment complaint against me. As if years of the torment due to his unconscionable behaviour isn't worth considering next to the incredible hardship of ignoring my messages! I tried to get some help from his parents, Debra and Steven Fairley, but they're both as grossly dishonest as their spawn, who ran to them so he could try to hide behind mummy and daddy as well as the police. And they let him they also went to the police and filed the same CRIMINAL complaint against me with the same zero justification. They're not just shielding a sexual predator helping him avoid responsibility for his heinous behaviour, they're actually aiding and abetting him by further victimizing me. I sent a letter to all 3 of them demonstrating how utterly disonest they all were in virtually everything about this whole situation, of course, being nothing but cowards and weasels who can't defend their own words or deeds, they didn't reply. You can read it here. Steven works a a driving instructor at PDW Driving School in the Chichester area and Debra is a Teacher's Assistant somewhere, I haven't been able to find out where. In other words, both of them work with students of some kind, is it a good idea to have anyone who will shield a sexual predator and even help him victimize others work around students? I've let daddy's employer know about who he is but I need to find out where mummy works, anyone who knows please inform me at admin@ryanfairly.org, or let the school know yourself. I was a depressed and very lonely old man with serious emotional and psychological issues. Ryan lured into a relationship, he constantly encouraged me, even sending me videos and pictures to further entice me and inflame my feelings. See pix and video stills below. It was all just a sick twisted game he was playing. He exploited his knowledge of my emotional problems and my hyper-sensitivities as well what he knew I most valued, all to inflict the maximum amount of trauma possible. With horrible contempt, he just tossed me away casually, cavalierly and without a thought, not a hint of remorse. He shattered my soul and did a jig on the shards, and he's still trying to make things worse for me as I try to get him to stop. He used me for some perverted pleasure, the ugly games he played have left me damaged, my life significantly diminished ever since, virtually every day turned into grim ordeals, and he doesn't care, not in 8 1/2 years has he ever shown the slightest hint of real, honest remorse. These are truly twisted, deplorable human beings. I've done all I can, the only avenue I have left is this one, to expose what they've done to me in a public space trying to get as many people as may know them to be aware of who they really are and what they're capable of. If you know Ryan, you likely know he's capable of such disturbed behaviour, if so, please share this with me. If you think Ryan isn't like that, you don't really know him that well, or you have managed to not get in between him and some reality he needs to believe. It took me years before I could believe that sweet young man I thought I knew was just a mask hiding the ugly truth beneath, and it's a very ugly thing indeed.
I'm also in real need of finding others he's victimized, or anyone who knows
Ryan is capable of such sick behaviour.If anyone reading this can help, please
email me: admin@ryanfairley.org. It's my understanding Debra is some kind of
teachers aid, so she likely works around children.Anyone who will shield and
even help a sexual predator shouldn't be in such a position. Unfortunately, I
can't find out where she works.Anyone who can tell me, it would be greatly
appreciated.Or, please, inform the school on your own, maybe point them to this
web site if nothing else.
Above at the top are
the most recent photos I have of Ryan, they're about 6 years old, getting more recent ones is also a
priority. The only photo I have of mum is below, I have none of dad.
13 Fulwood Park Mansions Chesterwood Drive SHEFFIELD S10 5DU He lived with at mum's place from 2006 to 2012
and then off and on since: 7 Castle Hill Drive Brockworth GLOUCESTER GL3 4PQ He went to University of Birmingham from
2011-2015. His Facebook page can be found here.
There are reasons to suspect something isn't
right with Ryan.He is very bright and
had entered a PhD in physics program at Royal Holloway University of London
[RHUL] where he was a TA but, after only 2 months, it was over. I haven't managed to find out what happened,
and, his family got really touchy when asked about it. I did hear a rumour
that it involved an underclassman and some kind of impropriety-TAs have
considerable power over any underclassman in the courses they're involved
in.Below are some other disturbing
issues with obvious implications. |
What you did Ryan Fairley: * Always acted like and quite often told me my friendship was extremely important to you * Told me repeatedly how much it meant to you that I was there in your life * YOU led us into the relationship * Constantly told me you loved me. * Constantly told me how your feelings for me were near as profound as mine for you * Constantly encouraged my feelings for you, you absolutely adored all the adoration I gave you * Sent me the absolutely unsolicited pics and vids and badgered me to send you the same * Behaved so as to instigate paranoid reactions from me twice, at least, in early May * Didn't even try to head off my inevitable reaction to that behaviour, as you had said you would, by simply sending me a few words in a PM or IM. * Instead of not taking my paranoid reactions seriously, you blew them out of proportion * Refused to change your attitude when I pointed out how badly you had misconstrued what I had claimed * Acted like I had done you some wrong when it was you who had acted dishonestly, when it was you who refused to act as we had agreed was what to do in such a situation * Acted with utterly bogus melodramatic outrage when I was near hysterical from your awful behaviour, 'disappearing' for days at a time while I desperately tried to figure out what was wrong, tried anything I could think of to end your hostility never realizing it was all an act * In-between these 2 truly deplorable deceptions, you sent the seemingly heartfelt and passionate PM insisting how much I meant to you, how powerful your feelings for me were, and that you truly loved me * When I asked you if you wanted me to go away, you answered "I don't know. I don't think so." But that was the last time you willingly communicated with me, you disappeared hoping to never ever have any interaction with me again. * You did this knowing of my hyper-sensitivity to such disappearance. * You chose to torment me for the rest of my life, never to know what happened * It took over 2 months and I had to pretty much coerce you to get you to tell me anything * Everything you said to me then was a lie or in some way dishonest-you even got hostile at me for asking you for more of an explanation that you said a year later I deserved * What you did say and the way you said it were unspeakably cruel and you had absolutely zero remorse, you even said you didn't care-and you didn't and still don't * You told me it had all been a big 'oops', you never really had feelings for me, never loved me, I never meant a thing to you, even our friendship was a sham and I should just fuck off! * Yep, that's how you handled ending our relationship, telling me I was too awful you couldn't let yourself believe you had ever had any feelings for me and I should just fuck off. * A year later you leave that travesty of an 'apology' and an 'explanation' that is full of BS, where you claim to be 'really really sorry' and 'really truly sorry' for what are some horrific behaviours but end it by claiming you don't know if you meant a word of it FFS! * I don't bother you for over 6 years when the trauma and psychological devastation you caused me were making my life difficult to cope with. I tried to ask, then beg, then abjectly beg you to help me and you just slammed the door in my face so you wouldn't hear a word from me. * You chose to make not the slightest effort to help me but went to considerable effort to make my life even harder to cope with. * You're such a coward and a weasel you refuse to talk to me, you refuse to admit to what you truly did to me or accept responsibility for it. * You're such a despicable deplorable and dishonest piece of shit that you act like I'm the villain, that you're the victim and went so far as to file a bogus CRIMINAL complaint against me! * You desperately shut off any avenue of communication I find to reach you and absolutely refuse to let me know anything about why you're behaving as you are, knowing all the while that it's the lack of this info that is the cause of my distress and of all the harm you've done to me. * In other words, after nine years now, you keep trying to destroy me. I don't see any other way to characterize your behaviour. This is all such heinous, deplorable, vile behaviour, it just isn't possible for the person I thought I knew to act like this. It's almost proof it was all an act, it was all a twisted game you were playing with the goal of enjoying my adoration and then ultimately, really enjoying the aftermath of your cruelties-the slow destruction of my soul that you still actively contribute to today. There is absolutely no justification for treating me as you did. If you weren't trying to hurt me, even destroy me, it would have been really easy to not cause me so much distress and trauma, and you certainly could have easily helped me tremendously at any time by simply talking to me and you haven't. You haven't made the slightest effort to help me, you have been nothing but a toxic blight on my life, seriously diminished it in many ways, and turned every day into a grim ordeal. All of that easily foreseen if you had bothered to give it the least bit of thought. These Fairleys are slime, they are filth. How else to characterize |